Aphasia Threads: Wright, Rose, and Taryn

Welcome to the Aphasia Threads Project, which weaves together three points-of-view: people with aphasia, caregivers, and the professionals who help each family navigate aphasia. Each week, we bring together three unrelated stories, one from each member of this triad, to learn from their experience. This week, we’re hearing from Wright, a person with aphasia, who had a stroke in 2016. Then, we’ll hear from Rose, who is a caregiver for her mother. Finally, we’ll hear from Taryn, a speech-language pathologist at the Milford Regional Medical Center Stroke Survivors Support Group.

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Person with Aphasia

I had a stroke on March 18, 2016. It left me with aphasia.

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Aphasia Changes Your Life

It impacts my day-to-day life, such as going to the Edmonds Library or Lynnwood Recreation Center.

But There Are Things That Help

I went to Tactus Therapy for speech therapy.

And Things You Learn Along the Way

Never give up!

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What Caregivers and Professionals Can Learn From Me

Thank you to Janet Regier, speech therapy, and JoAnne Vandermerwe.

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My mother was diagnosed with aphasia as my family was grieving the tragic death of my youngest sibling. The last words I said to my brother the day before his heart attack was, “Did you notice anything about Mom’s speech that seemed off?” For the next three years, we all had different approaches and different viewpoints on her condition as well as what was best for her.

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Aphasia Changes Your Life

Because my parents lived with us, my husband and I (and our kids) saw the small changes turn into bigger changes. My father had no choice but to find ways to be more patient and play the role of caregiver, something almost unheard of in his generation. And my children needed to put someone else’s needs ahead of their own, also a new concept for their age. I feel like my father and my immediate family went through something that the others in my family can never fully understand, but I wouldn’t want them to experience it.

But There Are Things That Help

Because of my mother’s age, technology wasn’t really an option as it was difficult to introduce with her language barriers. And speech therapy was a great option in the beginning, but in time, only made her more frustrated. She was handling this diagnosis with such grace and patience that no one wanted to be the one to ask her to work any harder than she already was.

And Things You Learn Along the Way

Everyone involved needs to be educated in all things aphasia so that all parties can be on the same page. Communication is key and will help keep the focus on what matters most.

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What People with Aphasia and Professionals Can Learn From Me

Aphasia professionals need to realize that different generations might have different family roles and that the expectations of each family member may be different from what it was prior to diagnosis. Our mother was the gentle force that kept our family going. Aphasia changed that and having support and guidance from the professionals we encountered was a must.

People who are caring for a person with aphasia need to let the person with aphasia steer the ship. Don’t assume that because they are lacking in communication skills that they can’t be the main driver of the care that is given. Pay close attention to body language, eye contact, and non-verbal cues and use those tools to reconnect with your loved one.

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Taryn works at Milford Regional Medical Center Stroke Survivors Support Group in Milford, Massachusetts..

I’ve been an outpatient speech-language pathologist for seven years, and I couldn’t refer people to any stroke support groups in the area. I knew the community needed one, so we started one.

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What I’ve Noticed Along the Way

It makes a difference when you hear people say that they feel understood and surrounded by people who “just get it.” Secondly, I hadn’t even considered the personal growth I’d experience. It was life and profession changing to be a part of the amazing group of people.

There Are Things That Help

Being around other people with aphasia helps.

And I Encourage New Professionals to Learn About Aphasia

Check out a support group! It’s real people in the community continuing their journey. No matter where you meet them in their journey, you’ll be reminded of the length, complexity, and real-life impact of aphasia.

What People with Aphasia and Caregivers Can Learn From Me

As a speech-language pathologist, I truly appreciate someone sharing their vulnerability, truth, and journey with me. They’ve all changed me for the better!

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  • Cathy McKenzie
    February 12, 2019 at 7:23 pm


  • Jeff Wright
    February 12, 2019 at 11:25 pm

    This is awesome — thanks for making this project happen. I enjoyed all 3 perspectives, but especially from Wright (my sister!).

  • Anonymous
    February 13, 2019 at 11:27 am

    This was a wonderful article and so helpful to me as a caregiver. The gentle approach comes through loud and clear. Jean McGee

  • Anonymous
    February 28, 2019 at 1:14 am

    Thanks so much, but I am finding that my husband who has aphasia severely, gets very angry with me for not understanding him. I feel I am very understanding and patient, but it is always my fault. I have tried to speak to him about it, but nothing seems to help, I am struggling and I am sure he is too. It breaks my heart and there is nothing I can do.

  • Eydie
    February 28, 2019 at 10:22 am

    My brother can’t speak write unable to identify letters words . He is so frustrated and angry I don’t know where to turn. I was able to teach him the use of tv remote and he wants to understand how to type in movie but doesn’t know letters. I’m at a loss feel so defeated what can I do? He’s in nursing facilitie as result from massive stroke 5 years ago. Paralyzed one side unable to walk. If he could only speak it would help him and me .thank you Eydie W

  • Maureen Kenealy
    March 3, 2019 at 10:15 am

    I can’t talk and it’s very frustrating. I talk very haltingly.

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